sorry to interupt...
learning to fly duels requires a lot of dedication, as its a long and frustrating path. help from veterans will only shorten it slightly.
if someone isn't willing to search for help/server password/rules he won't fly duels for more then few days anyway, even when every tini information is presented within the game and everyone is willing to help.
so if you aren't willing to search for the path for 30min in various forums, you won't walk it anyway even if someone tells you the direction.
you can't expect to join an onlinewar without reading the rules on some page. here its even alot more complex and time consuming.